My latest post has inspired me to think about past date flops and crown the king of date fails.
Bronze: If you had read my very first post, the name Crispin would be familiar to you. He and I had known each other for a while when he proposed to go out together for a drink. Granted, this could have been an innocent drink between work colleagues/friends, but it did turn out to be a date. There was offering of paying for the bill, flirting, taking me home to his place afterwards etc. Once home, he put on the seductive look and discreetly tried to convince me to join him in bed. Both a little drunk, we started to discuss exes, when he offered to watch the amateur sex video of him and his ex wife. Big fail. Poor girl.
Silver: About 2 years ago I met a a rather ruggedly handsome looking Arab man in front of a sales stand. We were both lured in by the promising wonder healing powers of dead sea products, trying hard to make an escape before losing every cent we own to them (their prices are sinfully steep!). Somewhere between the common notion of escape and the beautiful feeling of smooth, cleansed skin, he asked me on a date. Back then I was still very inexperienced and offered him to come back to my place for dinner after a few days of phone calls and text messaging. I had made a divine three course meal, including dessert. An hour before he was due to arrive at my place, he called to confirm we were still on (sweet) and something else. He asked whether I would like him to bring a very potent join and lubricant. Needless to say, I turned him down. The combination of a joint and lubricant had me wondering what he had planned for me that evening. This was supposed to be our first date!! Really, you couldn’t keep your fondness of anal sex a secret until date number two at least? FAIL.
Gold: (Taken from my latest post) About a week ago I met my soul mate at an online dating site, or so I thought. We arranged for a hurriedly planned date as we both could not wait to finally stare into each others eyes and romantically walk into the sunset together, hand in hand. The evening went well until the two-faced liar gentlemanly asked to be excused to be able to smoke a cigarette. I satisfyingly still chewed on my pizza 20 minutes later when my so-called soul mate went AWOL. Yes, ladies and gentlemen, we have a runner. It seems he packed up his balls and, given the daytime, ran into the sunset all by his rude, cowardly self. To add insult to injury, I was stuck with the bill and the pitiful looks of waitors and guests alike. We therefore have a WINNER. Fail. Enough said, this will be the last time I waste a thought on him.